I don't know about you but I sure could have used all that time for something more important. Now I am constantly reminding myself that I need to focus on God's plan in my life. I want to remember this time of my life as a time when I was constantly helping people and serving. I want to be a servant to others, I can't do that if I am busy goofing off and getting caught up in drama.
And for all you girls out there....Lets stop focusing on marriage and who is in what relationship or even if a guy likes you or not (you know you do it). Lets be on fire for God. Lets focus on become the mature young women a man should look for. We will never get there if we waste our time.
Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.
It is the LORD your God you must follow, and him you must revere. Keep his commands and obey him; serve him and hold fast to him.